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Question: Do we move back to our home state since my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 termimal cancer?

we had moved to virginia 2 yrs ago and since then found land and now have a house. we have 3 small boys 18 months 5, and 10 who also has special needs. may of 2006 my husband was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer that metastized to his liver and lymph nodes. his family came down to take him up to nj for treatment because they believe it was better. so in the summer we all went up north and lived between my parents house and his mothers house where he was staying. it was time for school to start up and he wanted to stay up in nj to finished his treatment then to return here in va.i returned with our children on my on raising the boys. my family down here is my church family and friends. i dont know how long my husband has but we miss him. his family wants us to move up there, my husband says he is coming down but is afraid and i am torn because his family thinks i dont love him because i wanted to have a stable envirnoment for the kids. what do i do? please help i feel so torn

Answer: Your primary support system if / when your husband dies will be your family. I'd keep the house near your family. You're gonna need them. If your family is in NJ, I'd move back there. If they are in VA then I'd stay down there.

Your kids won't have a stable environment for a long time. That's a sad fact of life. They need to be in counseling, as do you. There will be nothing normal for a long time here.

Personally, I can't believe that husband needs treatment in NJ that he can't get in VA. If your husband is terminal, then why is he doing treatments? If you've made the choice to do treatment in an attempt to beat the odds (and that is a valid choice) then that is one thing, and the time apart is one of the prices you pay. On the other hand, if he is just doing "pain and comfort" meds (hospice) then I'm sure that you can find that in VA.

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